Internal Family Systems (IFS)
Reconnect With yourself and restore internal balance
what is IFS?
Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy is a gentle, integrative approach that identifies and honors varying parts of oneself - the idea of IFS is each of these “parts”, at one point in time, was formed to protect and help individuals cope with trauma and/or stress, but they may no longer be serving you in the present. IFS helps you to better understand these parts and their present needs while working to integrate them with your “core self” - it further supports healing by restoring internal balance within oneself and reducing emotional reactivity to stress.
WHAT IS AN IFS SESSION LIKE?
You will meet with an IFS informed therapist, who will help you identify the internal “parts” that show up in response to stress and trauma. You’ll explore their roles, emotions, and protective intentions while practicing grounding and regulation strategies to stay within your window of tolerance. In subsequent sessions, you’ll gently interact with these parts and learn how to help them co-exist alongside your “core self” in healthy, adaptive ways.
Our IFS Therapy services support individuals navigating experiences such as:
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Symptoms may vary from person to person but may include the following:
Persistent Worry or Rumination: Ongoing, repetitive thoughts about potential problems, future outcomes, or “what if” scenarios that feel difficult to interrupt or quiet.
Racing or Intrusive Thoughts: A continuous stream of thoughts that feel fast, overwhelming, or hard to control, often jumping from one concern to another.
Difficulty Feeling Internal Safety or Calm: A sense of always being “on alert,” even in safe situations, with difficulty accessing rest or ease.
Emotional Reactivity to Uncertainty: Feeling easily overwhelmed, anxious, or distressed when things feel unknown, unpredictable, or outside of your control.
Inner Critic or Protective Parts Activation: Experiencing internal voices or “parts” that try to prevent mistakes or danger by overthinking, planning, or catastrophizing.
Difficulty Disengaging from Worry Loops: Feeling mentally “stuck” in cycles of overthinking, problem-solving, or anticipating worst-case outcomes.
Somatic Symptoms of Anxiety: Physical experiences such as tension, restlessness, fatigue, rapid heartbeat, or gastrointestinal discomfort connected to chronic worry.
Sleep Disturbances Related to Mental Activation: Difficulty falling or staying asleep due to an active or overthinking mind.
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Symptoms may vary from person to person but may include the following:
Protective Parts in Constant Activation: Experiencing strong internal “protector” responses such as hypervigilance, people-pleasing, emotional shutdown, or overcontrol that developed to maintain safety.
Emotional Flashbacks or Intense Internal States: Sudden waves of shame, fear, sadness, or panic that feel younger in nature or disconnected from the present moment.
Fragmented or Conflicted Internal Experience: Feeling as though different “parts” of you are in conflict—such as one part wanting closeness while another pushes people away for protection.
Chronic Shame or Self-Criticism (Inner Critic Parts): Persistent internal narratives of being “bad,” “too much,” “not enough,” or fundamentally flawed.
Difficulty Accessing Self-Compassion or Calm (Self Energy): Feeling disconnected from a grounded, compassionate sense of self, especially under stress.
Emotional Dysregulation or Shutdown: Shifting between emotional overwhelm and emotional numbness as protective responses.
Difficulty Trusting Self or Others: Protective parts may interfere with closeness, vulnerability, or decision-making due to past relational injuries.
Somatic Signs of Chronic Survival Mode: Persistent tension, fatigue, restlessness, or a sense that the body is always “braced” for impact.
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Symptoms may vary from person to person but may include the following:
Persistent Self-Critical Thoughts: Ongoing internal dialogue that is judgmental, harsh, or focused on perceived mistakes or inadequacies.
Perfectionistic Striving: Feeling an internal pressure to get things “right,” avoid mistakes, or meet extremely high personal standards.
Fear of Failure or Rejection: Strong internal concerns about disappointing others, being judged, or not being “good enough.”
Shame-Based Thinking: Frequent feelings of shame, inadequacy, or believing there is something fundamentally wrong with you.
Difficulty Accepting Mistakes: Struggling to tolerate imperfection or feeling intense self-criticism after small errors.
Internalized Rules or “Shoulds”: Experiencing rigid internal expectations about how you should think, feel, behave, or perform.
Reduced Self-Compassion: Difficulty offering yourself understanding, kindness, or forgiveness when struggling or overwhelmed.
Emotional Reactivity to Self-Perceived Failure: Feeling heightened anxiety, sadness, or frustration in response to perceived shortcomings.
Comparing Self to Others: Frequently measuring yourself against others in ways that lead to discouragement or self-doubt.
Difficulty Feeling “Good Enough”: A persistent sense that no matter what you do, it may not be enough or may not be right.
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Symptoms may vary from person to person but may include the following:
Fawn or “Protector” Responses: Automatically prioritizing others’ needs, emotions, or expectations as a way to maintain safety or connection.
Difficulty Saying No: Feeling anxiety, guilt, or fear when setting limits or declining requests from others.
Fear of Conflict or Rejection: Strong internal concern that disagreement or boundary-setting may lead to disconnection, anger, or abandonment.
Overresponsibility for Others’ Emotions: Feeling responsible for keeping others happy, regulated, or comfortable, even at the expense of your own needs.
Disconnection from Personal Needs or Preferences: Difficulty identifying what you want, need, or feel due to prioritizing external expectations.
Inner Conflict Between Parts: Experiencing tension between a “pleasing part” that seeks approval and other parts that feel exhausted, resentful, or unseen.
Approval-Seeking Behavior: A strong internal drive to gain validation, praise, or reassurance from others in order to feel secure or valued.
Difficulty Tolerating Disapproval: Emotional distress or anxiety when others are disappointed, upset, or not satisfied with you.
Suppressed Emotions or Needs: Tendency to minimize or hide your own feelings in order to maintain harmony or avoid conflict.
Burnout from Overextension: Emotional, physical, or mental exhaustion from consistently over-giving or over-functioning in relationships.
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Symptoms may vary from person to person but may include the following:
Sudden Emotional Shifts: Experiencing intense waves of emotion that feel quick to arise and difficult to regulate or slow down.
Parts Becoming Activated Quickly: Noticing strong “protector” or younger parts that take over in moments of stress, conflict, or perceived threat.
Difficulty Pausing Before Responding: Feeling like emotions lead reactions before there is time to reflect or access grounded perspective.
Feeling “Hijacked” by Emotions: Experiencing emotions as overwhelming or consuming, making it hard to stay present or centered.
Heightened Sensitivity to Triggers: Strong emotional responses to tone, words, conflict, or perceived rejection that may connect to past experiences.
Rapid Escalation in Conflict: Difficulty staying regulated during disagreements, leading to escalation, shutdown, or overwhelm.
Emotional Aftershocks: Lingering emotional intensity after an event has passed, making it hard to return to baseline.
Somatic Activation During Emotions: Physical symptoms such as racing heart, tight chest, shaking, or heat in the body when emotions are activated.
Inner Conflict Between Parts: Experiencing one part that feels activated or reactive while another part may judge, suppress, or feel overwhelmed by the reaction.
Difficulty Accessing Calm or Grounded Self-State: Feeling disconnected from a steady, compassionate sense of Self during emotional activation.
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Symptoms may vary from person to person but may include the following:
Persistent Negative Self-Beliefs: Ongoing internal narratives of being “not enough,” “unworthy,” or fundamentally flawed.
Strong Inner Critic Activity: Harsh internal voices or parts that focus on mistakes, shortcomings, or perceived inadequacies.
Difficulty Accessing Self-Compassion: Struggling to offer yourself kindness, understanding, or acceptance during difficult moments.
External Validation Seeking: Relying heavily on approval, praise, or reassurance from others to feel secure or worthy.
Fear of Failure or Rejection: Strong internal fear that mistakes or imperfection will lead to criticism, rejection, or disconnection.
Minimizing Strengths or Achievements: Difficulty recognizing or internalizing positive qualities, accomplishments, or feedback.
Comparison to Others: Frequently measuring yourself against others in ways that reinforce feelings of inadequacy.
Protective Parts that Avoid Risk: Internal parts that may hold you back from opportunities or vulnerability to prevent potential shame or failure.
Emotional Sensitivity to Criticism: Strong emotional reactions to perceived judgment, feedback, or disapproval.
Feeling Disconnected from Core Self-Worth: Difficulty accessing a stable, grounded sense of inherent worth or value.
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Symptoms may vary from person to person but may include the following:
Protective Parts Developed Early in Life: Long-standing coping patterns such as people-pleasing, perfectionism, emotional shutdown, or overachievement that formed to create safety in childhood environments.
Strong Inner Critic or Internalized Caregiver Voices: Harsh self-talk or internal messages that reflect past criticism, neglect, or unmet emotional needs.
Emotional Flashbacks or Younger Parts Activation: Sudden shifts into younger emotional states such as fear, shame, or helplessness that feel disproportionate to the present moment.
Difficulty Trusting Others or Feeling Safe in Relationships: Protective parts may remain guarded due to early experiences of inconsistency, neglect, or harm.
Emotional Numbness or Disconnection: A protective “shutdown” response that limits access to emotions, memories, or bodily sensations.
People-Pleasing or Fawning Responses: Tendency to prioritize others’ needs to maintain connection or avoid rejection or conflict.
Shame and Core Beliefs of Unworthiness: Deeply held internal beliefs of being “not enough,” “too much,” or inherently flawed.
Difficulty Accessing Self-Compassion or Self-Trust: Challenges connecting with a grounded, caring internal Self due to protective parts taking the lead.
Hypervigilance or Emotional Reactivity: Heightened sensitivity to tone, conflict, or perceived rejection as a survival-based adaptation.
Fragmented Sense of Self: Feeling disconnected from identity, desires, or internal needs due to early adaptive roles or survival strategies.
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Symptoms may vary from person to person but may include the following:
Conflicting Internal Parts: Experiencing an internal push-pull between parts that want growth or change and parts that pull back, shut down, or derail progress.
Procrastination or Avoidance Cycles: Delaying tasks, opportunities, or goals due to protective parts that fear failure, overwhelm, or judgment.
Fear-Based Interference: Internal protective parts that step in to prevent perceived risk, rejection, or disappointment by blocking action or follow-through.
Inner Critic Activation After Setbacks: Harsh self-judgment or shame-based internal narratives following perceived mistakes or missed opportunities.
Difficulty Sustaining Progress: Starting toward goals but struggling to maintain consistency due to internal conflict or emotional overwhelm.
Emotional Reactivity to Success or Growth: Feeling anxious, undeserving, or unsafe when things begin to improve or move forward.
Sabotaging Relationships or Opportunities: Protective patterns that disrupt closeness, success, or stability when vulnerability increases.
Low Self-Worth Beliefs Influencing Behavior: Underlying parts holding beliefs such as “I don’t deserve this” or “it won’t work out for me.”
Shutdown or Freeze Responses: Feeling stuck, numb, or unable to act when faced with stress, responsibility, or change.
Difficulty Trusting Positive Change: Protective skepticism or fear that good experiences will not last, leading to disengagement or withdrawal.
Investment & Pricing
At this time, Crescent Counseling & Consulting is not paneled with insurance providers. We intentionally remain out-of-network in order to best protect your confidentiality, preserve flexibility in the type and length of treatment that best supports your needs, and avoid the requirement of providing a formal mental health diagnosis for reimbursement purposes.
Our private pay rates reflect the advanced training, continuing education, and ongoing clinical consultation our therapists engage in to ensure a high standard of care.
We recognize that finances are an important consideration when seeking mental health support. To help make services more accessible, a limited number of reduced-fee sessions are available. We also provide superbills after each session, which you may submit to your insurance for potential out-of-network reimbursement, as well as a helpful worksheet/script to guide you in navigating conversations with your insurance provider.
Payment options include Visa, MasterCard, Discover, American Express, or Health Savings Account (HSA) cards that can be charged like a credit card.
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When it comes to establishing a therapeutic relationship, no one is a perfect fit for everyone.
I offer a complimentary 15 minute consultation call for you to get to know me, ask any initial questions you may have about the therapy process, and to allow me to assess and ensure your needs are within my scope of practice.
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These sessions are most commonly used for initial intake sessions - though, if preferred, can be offered upon client request.
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These are the most commonly selected sessions - sessions range anywhere from 45-60 minutes and are offered on a weekly, biweekly, or monthly basis.
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These sessions are the perfect fit if you need to be more mindful of budget and/or scheduling.
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EMDR Intensives are set up to provide multiple sessions of EMDR over a 1, 2, or 3 day period. They are cost effective and are well suited to those with busy schedules or who want to find relief from symptoms and traumatic distress more quickly than ongoing weekly EMDR sessions can provide.